Men has been chasing women for generations and generations. The simple fact of the matter is that they do not need to do all the chasing. People will value things more when they have to work for it rather than have it delivered on a silverplatter. The concept of creating higher social value is illustrated one that is often overlooked in some today's dating books.

There are too many books which take the romantic approach of seducing a woman by bringing her flowers, complimenting her and fufilling all her desires. When in reality, the truth is the complete opposite.

When you court someone with flowers, they see you as having lower value. Although the gift might be appreciated, it will often set the tone for the women to choose or reject the man. This gives her all the power and is unattractive to her. This is because humans are naturally driven to want the best that we can get. The best that we can get will be something we have to work for, something we will crave.

Handing over flowers, or chocolate, or any gift for that matters, destroys all attraction.

So what is a man to do? The complete opposite.

In order to gain a women's heart, he must get her to chase him as much as he is chasing her. The woman should be genuinely interested in the man. He can encourage this by not completely giving her what she wants all the time.

Teasing her is one of the best ways to trigger attraction. If she does not respond, it has not been done with enough humor.

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